Is your inner brat in control?

We all misbehave in one way or another whether we have the courage too admit it or not, and we often choose to ignore the causes of that inappropriate behavior, which results in conflicts in our relationships. We can see this in the the way we react when what we don’t get our way in an argument and these reactions are the symptoms. We need to get to the root cause if we are to overcome these conflicts. Self-awareness and understanding is vital for both our own and the collective well-being of society to maintain a harmonious existence. If we don’t get a grip on our own thoughts and actions we remain trapped as unruly brats with no self-control and nothing can change for the benefit of all.

Observe your thoughts and you’ll notice the duality of a ‘me’ that desires something and another ‘me’ which questions whether it is attainable or acceptable – the first is the urge, the latter arising from stored memory of all that we we have been taught. Both are the drivers of what we think of, say or do, the source of the conflicts we experience and the whys of the misbehaviours we display.